Question by Bεεbe ❀Tяee: Which college should I go to ?
Okay I was originally going to go to Georiga perimeter for my core classes then transfer to SCAD for art classes. Then my best friend welcomed me to her school western georgia (she kinda wanted me to come) but I don’t know if they have art classes, thats what I want to major in, art. I’m torn bc I’d love to go to school w/ my best friend bc its been a long time since we’ve seen each other and if I go to her college chances are i’d probably just make friends w/ her friends. But the collge could be big and we probably wouldn’t see each other at all … and then I’d be stuck at a school im not really fond of. Then there’s also be forever known as (my best friend’s name)’s friend , Its really hard, I wanted to go to the other two colleges to kinda, blossom into my own person you know…. and make my own friends .. but if that backfires I could be the loner again.. at college…. I just don’t know what to do… I could either go to my friend’s college and be friend’s w/ her friends..and have a life finally lol or Be more independant, find my ow friends and paths and ect. Idk im tired of being alone… but i don’t want to go to the wrong college …Huuuuuuuhhhhhhhh
Answer by Janet
As long as you go to a college you like there is no “wrong college” (provided it fits the criteria of study you need for your decided career).
The entire college experience is meant to be enjoyable, and will be if you open yourself up to it. It’s always sad to lose old friend, and no matter how hard u try the dynamics of any relationship changes over time…but that doesn’t mean it changes for the worst.
When you go to college you are opening yourself up to something bigger that high school, and consequently some of the friendship you built there will be equally if not more sustaining.
Don’t predicate you academic choice on other people. Pick the college you like best for scholastic reasons…if you don’t like it you can always transfer.
Good luck honey.
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