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MEN ONLY: what makes a woman irresistible to you?


STRAIGHT MEN: (besides physical beauty, besides your ideal shape/weight & besides your idea of great sex) what do you love in a woman that makes you feel very attracted to her, even makes you find her virtually irresistible?

Please state any qualities or simple things you’ve noticed in women (classmates, coworkers, friends, lovers, celebrities, movie stars, TV characters, girlfriends, wives etc…) that apply here and please be specific:

if it’s her walk describe it;
if makeup: specify if it’s red lipstick or a ton of black eyeliner;
if it’s her voice: soft, high pitched?
the way she looks at you: how? (angry? coy? admiring? furtive?)
and why: what does this look evoke for you? how does it make you feel?
Is it sthg she doesn’t do? what?
Do you feel irresistibly drawn to women who yell at you?
Do you prefer soft spoken women who speak softly or whisper?
A girly high pitched voice or a Lauren Bacall/Demi Moore lower pitch?
Women who smile broadly? Or who conceal their teeth with their hand?
If it’s an intangible quality such as vulnerability or self-confidence, please describe how you recognize it physically.

Basically the above are mere examples of non-sexual, non-”built-in” physical stuff that you might find appealling. Anything you’ve noticed recurring in the actresses/fictional characters or real women in your life that you simply adore, please list it.

Thank you very much! =)

===Shout out to GAY MEN: sorry for this useless-to-you question! ;-) =========
Why yes, as a matter of fact I have here a problem with gay men: they’re adorable, friendly, hawt, kind, caring and have zero interest in me because I don’t have a weewee! ;-) HUGE problem!
PLEASE KEEP EM COMING! Thanks to those who are VERY SPECIFIC! :-)

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  1. NelTuEspada says

    No lesbians?

  2. ♠♠♠ says

    a great personality. someone i can talk about anything with. but the most important is…. THE LOOKS. lol jk. but dont get me wrong, looks do matter, but i prefer personality

  3. Dan says

    The beauty inside

  4. Greg says

    tits or gtfo

  5. ▐▀▀▼▀▀▌ ►David◄ ▐▄▄▲▄▄▌ says

    im a silent person, im very romantic and value the women, yet if everywomen knew that then maybe just maybe theyll look at me more than a party person,

  6. Antonio D says

    A Sultry attitude …Jessica Rabbit thing…Take Care Good Luck

  7. david says

    i want a girl that will not boss me around

  8. Vernon Dozier: Redux says

    Sure, physical beauty is important, but so is a great sense of humor, intelligence, and self-confidence. A woman who might not be very beautiful but who knows who she is and is comfortable with that knowledge is much, much more sexy than a beauty queen with no notion of self-confidence or worth.

  9. L.Mikhail says

    When she puts on those Playboy bunny Rabbit ears… OHHHHH….. BANG BANG!!! YEAH!!

  10. cdeantoneo731 says

    FLAB!!! So much flab you could shoot her with a bullet and it would bounce back off
    That’s HOT
    :O~

  11. chickennuggets says

    umm do u have a problem with gay men???????

  12. she bangs the drum says

    Big b-b-brain.

  13. Uncle Pedro says

    The ideal irrisistable girl for me is someone who is nice, smiles, is kind, cute, smart, unique, funny, happy, confident, charismatic, and someone who can be themselves around anybody. Their voice/walk don’t really matter to me, although I really don’t like too much makeup. Someone who is happy and energetic. Smiling is nice too.

  14. bmw_illusionist says

    it’s all personality.

  15. Uncle Pennybags says

    Here’s some non beauty things that attract me:

    1. Confidence in herself. I’m not saying she has to dominate things, but she should be confident in her ability to handle things.
    2. English, Irish and Australian accents. Love’em!
    3. Girly voice. Lower pitched voices just grate on me.
    4. Ability to have a good time without partying. Can she just enjoy the moment?
    5. She’s interesting. She’s got an interesting story or piece of knowledge to tell.
    6. If at times, she steps lightly, even bounces.

  16. Ty ♥ says

    We have allot in common. XP! not evryy thing but most things.lol

  17. Andrew P says

    1) She can carry a conversation
    2) She enjoys the same active lifestyle I enjoy
    3) She takes a shower as often as I do
    4) She brushes her teeth as often as I do
    5) She does not have a mustache, or a beard
    6) She was born a ‘she’
    7) She can tolerate me being a man, and that sometimes I need alone time or time with my buddies 8) She has some sort of goals in her life

    Alls those things you mentioned above are very shallow. I do not care if a woman is soft spoken. I do not care what the color of their skin is. I do not care if they came from a poor family, rich family, loving family or abusive family. Also, one of the most important features I look for in a woman

    9) Will she make a good partner in our lives
    10) Will she be a loving mother to our children

  18. johnb693 says

    Let me cite something, one of our most beautiful woman wrote, Audrey Hepburn.
    And it’s one, I totally agree with. I think we can all agree, although sadly she’s no longer with us, she was beautiful inside and out.

    “The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman must be seen from in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart, the place where love resides. The beauty of a woman is not in a facial mole, but true beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul. It is the caring that she lovingly gives, the passion that she shows, and the beauty of a woman with passing years only grows! “

  19. KMC says

    iv got two

    1) definatly self confidence.. a girl has to be confortable with herself in order to be comfortable with you

    2) (even tho it kinda contradics 1) her ablity to make me feel strong.. when i hold my gf i like that she feels protected.. idk it just gives the whole masculinity a boost

  20. Dr. Mostafa Azzab says

    In order (to me myself) :
    1 – One of its priorities is to make her self well dressed and in beautiful look
    2 – Sense of humour
    3 – girly acting
    3 – Personality which suites me

    The personality is not the last because it is less important but because it needs more time to be discovered.

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